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January 2013

Here we are at the beginning of the new year!

No bullshit about how I am going to do this or that, I just dissapoint when I do that!

This year Chris and I are looking forward to continue to try for a family, and just generally enjoying our life if that does not happen for us.   We hope to spend lots of quality time with friends and family and we pray that this year will find us in good paying, fulfilling jobs!

Speaking of jobs, I am still looking and I hope that if you hear anything you will let me know.   I also ask that you pray for Chris and I while we struggle through this time.   My last severance cheque is on friday and I have two interviews this week.   I have a handful of outstanding applications out as well.   We are trying not to be worried.   We have saved as much as we could and hope that will carry us through.  

I can apply for EI on Friday, but that will mean 2 weeks waiting period and that waiting for the first cheque to come.   The cheque will not be anything close to what I was making before and we are in a lease.

We are very very optimistic about this new year and we hope that you are too!   Our sincere prayer is that you find true joy, real love, complete health, the wealth you need and the wisdom to see it all.

I am going to try and do the 365 photo challenge this year and then do a year book with those photos.  Here is my first photo!  

I chose this photo as my first one because this is one of the best places in the world.   We love to sit out on our patio and enjoy the view while we hang out together.   We spent a number of lovely nights out there eating amazing food in the summer and Chris has taken to taking photos off the balcony most nights.






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