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Thats how I feel...actually it was worse words....but my little brother might read it and get mad and charge me two dollars for swearing!

We have had cancer scares in our family, we have lost friends, family and acquaintances and I am so so so tired of it.   The word still strikes fear in my body and makes my blood run cold!   I would do just about anything to help find a cure.

When I was little when we would see a falling star we would wish that "aunty polly would get better" and quite sometime ago that wish changed to "Aunty Sharon would kick cancers ass!".      How silly is that wishing on stars and raging at cancer!

As most of you know, my sister is the perfect kid...and so she has one upped my rage with action!   GO TANYA!!!   She is going to shave her head for cancer!    Her goal is to raise 10,000 by the end of the month and then we will have a party where she will allow you all to watch her shave her head!

 Her husband has not always been totally on board with the bald wife thing, but he is 150% on board with the cause  read his personal story here.

I am so proud of my sister and I hope that I can challenge you to match or exceed Chris and my donation of $100.00.    Many of you know our situation and you know that this is a big deal for us.   We are on a very very tight budget.   This is a huge deal, and every single dollar goes to cancer research (and of course you can get a tax receipt if you are concerned about that).

If you have had cancer, know someone who has, or have experienced any measure of the loss, anger, sadness etc that this diagnoses can bring I challenge you to match our donation!  Go here to make your donation pledge (please don't pledge unless you intend on following through)




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